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    July 09

    学会说好话

    最近看到一篇博 说中国人喜欢拣难听的话说
    深有同感 我觉得这和我们的教育有关 批评和自我批评
    说实话就是诤友 有什么就说什么 好听的话就是阿谀奉承 是奸人
    因为工作的需要还有环境的变化
    开始慢慢尝试说一些赞美的话
    赞美不是奉承 而是善于发现和表达身边美好的人和事
    效果开始慢慢的出现 自己也相对比较开心
    我一直都觉得不够幸福 可能就是我没有发现美的眼光
    对自己以及对身边的人都太苛刻
    我们都是凡人 都不完美也 都会互相影响情绪
    多说些'恭维'的话吧
     
     
     

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    Sandra Yangwrote:
    我也发现用美的眼光去看问题会开心很多~
    July 10
    琛 李wrote:
    这个...我好像也蛮挑剔的,汗
    July 10
    Sharon CHAUwrote:
    this is true. i still need to learn a lot...
    July 10
    ye jessiwrote:
    宽容 赞赏 感恩
    July 9
    Jingjie Yuwrote:
    完美吧 哈哈 就差点拉
    不是有首旧歌叫爱在心头口难开啊 不要对赞美吝啬 :)
    Ronnie最受不了我就是对别人好对他恶劣 他无法理解我的对自己人就可以大呼小叫的逻辑
    努力改正中 现在打电话给家里人 尽量不恶劣了 并且多多拍马匹 呵呵
    July 9
    mavis 球球wrote:
    问题在于对最亲密的人非常苛刻,对陌生人却异常的宽容,哈哈,不过女生间的那种我是适应不来,非常的不舒服
    July 9
    ye jessiwrote:
    你终于觉悟了。我相公走到这一步就完美了
    July 9

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